🔥 Myths of a Balanced Diet, Part 3


"Calories Are All That Matter"

“I’m eating under 1,800 calories a day—so why am I gaining weight?”

That was Marcus*, a 52-year-old IT consultant who came in convinced his metabolism was broken. He tracked every bite in MyFitnessPal. He counted almonds. He stopped eating after 7 pm. And yet, his waistline kept growing, his blood pressure was rising, and he was constantly tired.

He looked at me and asked: “Isn’t weight just calories in, calories out?”

🔬 Where the “Calorie Myth” Fails

This old-school idea—that you can out-calculate your body like a math equation—ignores something huge:
Your body is not a calculator. It’s a chemistry lab.

Calories from 100 grams of broccoli are not the same as 100 grams of soda. One sends your blood sugar soaring; the other sends your gut microbes dancing. One floods your brain with dopamine; the other fuels cellular repair.

🧠 What Actually Happens When You Eat

Your body responds to food based on:

  • Hormones like insulin, leptin, cortisol, and GLP-1

  • Inflammation triggered by processed ingredients

  • Satiety signals driven by protein, fat, and fiber

  • Nutrient density, not just caloric load

Marcus's diet? It was technically “low-cal,” but here’s what it looked like:

  • Protein bar with coffee in the morning

  • Low-fat frozen entrée for lunch

  • Handful of pretzels or “100-calorie” snack packs in the afternoon

  • Diet soda with takeout sushi for dinner

Plenty of processed carbs. Minimal protein. Barely any fiber. And no healthy fat.

⚖️ Why Quality > Quantity

Focusing only on calories is like judging a book by the number of pages.
It tells you something, but not the whole story.

Here’s what we did instead:

  • Swapped out protein bars for actual meals with eggs, greens, and avocado

  • Built his lunches around grilled chicken, lentils, and roasted vegetables

  • Added olive oil, nuts, and fiber to stabilize his blood sugar

  • Ditched the snacks marketed as “healthy” but designed for shelf life, not satiety

❤️ Marcus’s Transformation

He stopped counting calories and started listening to his body.
Within six weeks, he was sleeping better, had more energy, and his belly started to shrink, without ever feeling deprived.

Feeling stuck despite counting calories?

The truth is, it’s not just about the numbers. Your body deserves more than low-calorie meals that leave you hungry and unsatisfied. Let’s get to the root cause of your struggles with weight, energy, and metabolism.

Take the first step toward a more balanced approach to your health. We’ll work together to create a plan that works for you.

To Your Best Health,

Amy Loden Tiffany, MD, FACP

*Pseudonym

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